The I Am Factor Program:
Empowering Women To Thrive in Love on Purpose
A guide to overcoming dating obstacles so that women can find lasting love with ease, clarity, and confidence.
The I Am Factor Program: Building Successful Relationships
Helping Women Take the Right Steps With Certainty to Their Ultimate Love Relationship With So Much Ease, Clarity and Confidence.
The I Am Factor: Building Successful Relationships
Helping Women Take the Right Steps With Certainty to Their Ultimate Love Relationship With So Much Ease, Clarity and Confidence.
WHO AM I?
Stephen Nderitu Muiruri is a highly respected Transformational Speaker and Relationship Coach, known for his exceptional ability to help women overcome dating challenges and find true love. He is the Founder and CEO of IRI Coaching, a leading coaching service based in Seattle, Washington. With over a decade of experience working with women in the community as a Behavior Change and Communications Program Officer, Stephen is a Certified Professional Coach and an Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner (ELI-MP) trained at the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) USA.
Stephen’s passion for promoting healthy and fulfilling relationships, thriving families, and flourishing societies is evident in his work. He has helped countless women rediscover themselves, boost their self-esteem, and attract compatible partners through his unique and proven program, The I Am Factor.
Stephen’s journey began with his sisters’ resilience and strength as they overcame challenges and persevered through difficult times. Their experiences inspired him to pursue a career where he could make a positive impact on people’s lives. He is committed to using his skills and knowledge to help others overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. Stephen believes that with hard work and dedication, anything is possible.
In addition to his successful coaching career, Stephen is a distinguished international keynote speaker at various mental health and women empowerment events. He is a true inspiration to all those who seek to live a life of purpose and meaning.
Stephen is happily married to his wife Abbigail and is blessed with four wonderful children. He is a spiritual leader, mentor, and inspirational speaker who coaches people on freeing internal barriers so they can live their best lives.
Stephen’s personal background and life experiences have shaped his coaching philosophy and approach. He is passionate about helping people overcome their fears, doubts, and insecurities to achieve their full potential. Stephen’s work is a testament to his unwavering commitment to making a positive impact on people’s lives.
ho It Is For?
This Program is for Women: :
You always feel that you deserve more and better than what you have experienced in the past and want to find a partner that is worthy of you.
You are a woman who wants to regain your life momentum and focus faster than you thought possible, even if you recently experienced heartbreak or disappointment.
You have experienced several breakups and have no more confidence to step out and get back to the dating scene.
If you are tired of always attracting the wrong type of men and wondering if the right ones still exist.
ho It Is Not For?
This program is not for :
This is not for you if you just want a short-term relationship. It is not for friends-with-benefits kind of relationships.
This is not a soulmate match-making program. If that is what you want, this is not it.
This is not for you if you are unwilling to put in the work and follow the instructions from this program. It only works when you are ready and willing to put in some work.
MODULE ONE
Energy Engagement Assessment : Understand Why You Are the Way You Are.
OUTCOME
Discover patterns blocking your success so that you will be able to show up authentically and powerfully in your relationships.
Self-assess your current circumstances so you know your starting point.
Explore how you react and respond to daily experiences so you can identify the areas to work on.
DESCRIPTION
It's a struggle to make any meaningful connections when you are feeling tired, exhausted, and even thinking that something might be wrong with you. In this module, you will increase your self-awareness skill which is a critical component in helping you prioritize the areas you may want to improve.
MODULE TWO
Identity Matters: How to Create an Authentic Self to build a fulfilling Relationship
OUTCOME
Uncover the true essence of your identity.
Identify who you want to be so you can make informed decisions that align with that identity.
Explore personal values and principles so that you can live a more authentic and fulfilled life.
DESCRIPTION
Where we come from and where we are going are two important aspects of our lives. In this module, you will discover who you really are so that you can verify the direction of your life.
MODULE THREE
Living with purpose: How to Create authentic and meaningful Relationships
OUTCOME
Gain clarity on the direction of your life so that you can avoid distractions.
Achieve focus in your life so you can concentrate on what matters most.
Find your true passion so that you are able to gain the motivation and momentum to achieve extraordinary results.
DESCRIPTION
Have you ever tried to make a puzzle without knowing the final picture? It's hard to know where all the pieces go because you don't know what you're working on. Your life may be similar. This module will help you envision where you are going so that you are able to capture a life vision to rally behind, aligning everything with that purpose and vision for your life.
MODULE FOUR
Knowing Your Strength: How to Create a Stronger Sense of Self in a Relationship
OUTCOME
Pinpoint areas you are good at so that you are able to express and communicate them with confidence.
Finally, Understand your areas of weakness so that you are able to see what areas you can improve.
Master your strengths and identify your weaknesses so that you are able to increase self-awareness which will help you get to know yourself better.
DESCRIPTION
Not knowing your strengths and weaknesses can lead to a lack of self-knowledge and understanding which can make it difficult for you to identify areas of growth and improvement. This module will provide clarity on what you are good at and what you need to work on so that you are able to achieve your goals much faster than you thought possible.
MODULE FIVE
Building Strong Boundaries: The guide to establishing Healthy Relationships
OUTCOME
Create your personal identity so that you can increase your sense of personal value and importance.
Establish your personal space and privacy so that you are able to take care of your mental and emotional well-being.
Finally, understand how to set limits on what you are willing or not willing to accept from others so that you can establish healthy relationships.
DESCRIPTION
The lack of personal boundaries can lead to feelings of anxiety and stress, as well as feelings of being taken advantage of or being treated unfairly by others. This module will help you set guidelines and rules or limits that identify the safe, reasonable, and permissible ways for other people to behave around you and how to respond when other people step outside those limits.
MODULE SIX
Knowing Your Needs and Wants: The Key to Building Strong Connections
OUTCOME
Clarify the difference between your needs and wants so that you are able to set the right priorities for your life.
Develop your own identity and sense of self-worth so you are not so easily influenced by others.
Gain clarity on what you want in a partner so you know them when you see them.
DESCRIPTION
Not knowing what you need and want can leave you going on endless dates that do not end up with a permanent or marriage commitment, mostly leaving you stressed, overwhelmed, frustrated and disappointed, always seeking validation and conforming to other people's expectations while neglecting your own needs. This module will help you gain clarity on your own needs and interests so that you are able to identify those relationships that serve you and ultimately that partner that is worthy of you.
MODULE SEVEN
Gratitude and Self Care: How to create a Fulfilling and Authentic Relationship
OUTCOME
Discover your worth so that you are able to love, cherish, embrace, and find fulfillment in who you are.
Explore your relationship failures so you can take responsibility for your part in those past experiences.
Learn how to forgive yourself for past mistakes so you can feel free to move forward to your desired future.
DESCRIPTION
It’s quite a challenge to be positive and loving when you are weighed down with anxiety and depression, always carrying that internalized message of “I am not good enough.” In this module you will discover and find fulfillment in various areas of personal life so that you will feel empowered and good enough with or without a partner, attracting the right circumstances and relationships in your life.
MODULE EIGHT
Choosing Your Environment: A guide to building Strong Connection in Relationships
OUTCOME
Identify the right locations and venues where your ideal partner is likely to be.
Learn how to unlock more chances and opportunities of meeting the right people so that you can find someone who is compatible with your lifestyle and personality.
Explore ways to communicate with anyone who is a potential partner.
DESCRIPTION
It is difficult to strike up conversations and build connections with potential partners when you have very little or nothing in common. This module will help you identify and pinpoint places with the highest chances of meeting people with common values so that you are able to easily identify a potential compatible partner.
MODULE NINE
Stay Curious: The Key to Making Quality Engagement in Relationships.
OUTCOME
Master the skill of curiosity so that you are able to find someone who shares your interests and values.
Discover and master the art of effective communication and small talk so you can engage with more people.
Learn how to handle rejection like a pro.
DESCRIPTION
Starting up a conversation with strangers can be a challenge in many circumstances, but in the world of dating, it can be even more so. This module will help you initiate conversations and make effective connections with ease to gain insight into their personalities so that you are able to make wiser decisions to find the ONE.
MODULE TEN
Counting the Cost: A Guide to Making Informed Decisions in Relationships
OUTCOME
Develop a mindset that considers all factors before choosing a relationship so that you can do it in a way that demonstrates sensitivity to what you want and care about.
Discover the foundational attributes to look for in a partner before you start a relationship so that you can move forward with certainty.
Identify ways of information gathering so that you can get as much information as possible to guide your decision.
DESCRIPTION
Getting into a new relationship can be an emotional journey, led, in many cases, by the heart; but the head needs to be engaged too. In this module, you will be able to cross-examine and investigate- checking to see if the potential candidate is worth it, and truly meets your key criteria for success. This is important before you consider any form of relationship so that you can increase your chance for success.
MODULE ELEVEN
Taking The Leap of Faith
MODULE TWELVE
Be Free To Change Your Mind
OUTCOME
Learn how to assert yourself whenever your boundaries are crossed.
Get clear on how to communicate your needs and expectations clearly.
Know how to end a relationship with confidence and compassion.
DESCRIPTION
It can be a challenge when you have entered a relationship but it's just not working for you. In this module, you will learn about how to confidently assert your right to say no, and end a relationship that does not serve you so you can be free to explore one that does.